"Walk a mile in someone's shoes" before you judge them keeps coming to my mind tonight.  Sometimes it's even those closest to you that "Judge" the way you feel.  Maybe it's because you have protected them by not telling them what you have been through.  Where is that line .....  Do you just let it go and continue to deal with their criticism.  Or hide the way you feel from them.  It's truly a damned if you do and damned if you don't ...... No matter what ...... you're wrong .......